Tuesday, October 03, 2023

The Month That Was - September 2023

The passing of September makes me 63 years old.  It's a birthday of no consequence.  No boundary has been crossed.  No symbolic meaning.  No great revelations.  At least 62 had the significance of me being able to apply for Social Security, even though I'm not going to.  64 has the significance of being in a famous Beatles song.  But 63 -- I got nothin'. 

In fact I have little to report at all.  I've been doing nothing but rolling along with my life, lost in my habits. In the past I would have felt as though I'm missing out, but now I welcome a stretch of routine and normalcy.  With a warmer than normal winter predicted, I'm pretty content at the moment.


[Music] Changes in Gratitude

I guess you could call me a Jimmy Buffet fan.  I wasn't always.  As a sneering, snarky youth I scoffed at his silly songs which I passed off as some kind of limp country pop.  I probably came to like him in my late 20s as I lost my hard edge and I fell for the simple catchiness of the tunes that would earworm their way into my brain.  

The more I listened, the more I appreciated it.  The big thing about Jimmy was always his beach bum persona; the carefree, sun-drenched, margarita-sipper in the aloha shirt, representing everything you long for as you pound your head against your office cube wall and shovel the snow from your driveway.


Here's the thing, I have had more than one opportunity to live that sort of life.  The dirty secret is that, like many fantasies, it gets boring real fast once the novelty wears off.  You can spend only so many aimless days in a lounge chair sipping fruity drinks and devouring beach books.  And you would be stunned how fast you gain weight from margaritas.  The plain fact is that we all need something to do.  If I truly found myself on a beautiful tropical island with little to do except chill, I would probably be drinking bourbon nonstop and obsessively gambling on Draft Kings.  That said, it's fun for a week or two at a time, so in that sense, Jimmy nailed it.


I think what most people miss about Jimmy is that there was more to it than that persona.  The celebration of inebriated slacking would wear thin in short order, but ultimately, that wasn't the underlying theme he brought to the table. Considering his entire oeuvre, I would sum up his mission in one word: Gratitude.  Sorrow and joy, pleasure and pain; ultimately we appreciate it all.


  • Some of it's magic, some of it's tragic, but I had a good life all the way

  • Wrapped myself around a Ma Bell telephone pole…Life is just a tire swing  

  • Everyone here is just more than contented to be livin' and dyin' in ¾ time

  • Roll with the punches…made the best of whatever came his way

  • Survivors of tidal waves, Children of former slaves…They'll be changing channels, always will

  • There's a little bit of fruitcake left in every one of us

  • We all know, just how lucky we are


All these lyrics and so many others convey gratitude for life and humanity, with all defects and difficulties that come with it.  That is the truly enduring message.


Beyond that, I also think Jimmy is very underrated as a songwriter, again by those who pass him off as nothing but a fantasy persona.  Bob Dylan called out his admiration for his songs, as has Paul McCartney, yet for some reason he doesn't seem to get looped into the greatest songwriter conversations.  His ability to construct clever rhymes is really second to none, he has a great variety in meter and, of course, he can compose a hook as well as anyone.  Let me just link some of my favorites (Links to YouTube):


That's What Living is to Me -- a call out to Mark Twain, this is wonderfully crafted and perfectly sung.  If I had to choose one song to describe Jimmy Buffet music it would be this one. Marvelous character images, a great hook, the contrast of happiness and sorrow -- "In the far off regions, the foreign legions keep the thieves and the predators at bay" vs. "stories from my favorite books still take on many different looks".


Changing Channels -- Another one with a strong sense of gratitude for the life we are given. The quiet poetry of the mundane.  The beauty of the everyday.  A truly lovely ballad. 


The Ballad of Skip Wiley -- Characters from a Carl Hiassen beach read.  Swanky horns like an old school caper.  A good example of his use of meter.  It also contains what might be my favorite rhyme in all the universe.  "With a pirate's persona / he snatched the gridiron madonna".  Too much fun.


And if I had to pick a favorite album I'd start with Fruitcakes wonderful infectious songs covering the gamut, call outs for the title song and Delaney Talks to Statues, a beautiful song for his daughter, or more correctly about his love for his daughter.


Another connection I feel for Jimmy is his love of, and call outs for, Florida, a state you can only appreciate if you can take the yin and the yang, the blue skies and ultra-violet rays, the riches and son-of-a-bitches.  Rarely does an album go by without a Florida reference I recognize and have experienced.


As I have aged my sense of gratitude has grown and Jimmy's music has certainly helped that along, and in turn fed my gratitude for having been able to enjoy it.  No question my Jimmy Buffet playlist will be in heavy rotation to the last.


Thank you, Jimmy.


[TV] Streaming Stories

I ran across this list of the top 15 streamed programs last year.  I have no reason to doubt it.

  1. Stranger Things 

  2. NCIS 

  3. Cocomelon 

  4. Ozark 

  5. Encanto 

  6. Grey’s Anatomy 

  7. Criminal Minds 

  8. Bluey Disney+ 

  9. Gilmore Girls 

  10. Seinfeld 

  11. Supernatural 

  12. Wednesday 

  13. Heartland 

  14. Cobra Kai 

  15. The Simpsons


And I can't let it slide without commentary.  First, I'm glad to see Stranger Things on top. It is a high quality, well written show that young people can enjoy and dodges so many of the culture war pitfalls that causes so much TV to be really bad.  Seen it.


I would have suspected the only reason to watch NCIS or Criminal Minds was because you were stuck with old school cable.  Formulaic, expository, arch -- the continued existence and popularity of shows like this is baffling to me. Still, can't argue with success.


I gather Cocolemon, Bluey, and Encanto are the hot kids shows of late.  Unsurprisingly, I haven't seen any, but maybe when I see the (de jure) grandkids on Thanksgiving.


Ozark is intriguing, but it also sounds like a minefield for potential crime adjacent TV clichés.  Still I like Jason Bateman so I should probably check it out.


I wonder who will die first, Grey's Anatomy or me.


When I saw Gilmore Girls I thought it must be a reboot of the old series.  Nope.  Not as far as I can tell.  Pushing a quarter century and people are still watching it?  I never watched it; what am I missing?


Now, Seinfeld I can understand. Thirty-something and still in the top ten.  That is correct.  It's the GOAT sitcom and nothing before or after can touch it.  It is still fresh in the current TV landscape.  Seen it.


I confess I had never heard of Supernatural until now. A show about monster hunting. My first thought is to hope Darin Morgan is one of the writers (IYKYK).  It has had 15 seasons on Netflix, so maybe they are doing something right.  May try.


Wednesday was a big hit.  It was all over social media for a while and it looks like fun.  I might give it a shot.


Heartland is another one I never heard of.  A Canadian family drama, presumably more Waltons than Succession.  Unless Shoresy shows up and starts chirping, I'll pass (IYKYK).  Still, a "Canadian family drama" up that high is impressive.


I occasionally stream Cobra Kai -- I think I'm on season 3 -- and it's really good fun.  Tightly written, doesn't take itself too seriously, and Macchio and Zabka are great together.  Seen some.


The presence of The Simpsons makes me wonder how many people are just rewatching the early classics or is there a big audience actually trying to stay current on all 35 seasons.  Seen some.


One knee-jerk conclusion I could draw is that generational variance isn't that great anymore.  I mean, look at the #1, it's new, but set in the 80s with a classic Spielberg flavor to it. All this assumes that the popularity of the shows listed above runs across generations, but that wouldn't surprise me, it's kind of always been like that. I was a fan of Cheers in the '80s, but I also loved the Twilight Zone from the '60s.  In the '60s I loved The Monkees, but I also watched The Three Stooges from the '30s.  Now folks like Wednesday, but maybe they also like Seinfeld.  I see YouTube videos of teens and twenty somethings covering Classic rock.  I grew up in a time of the "Generation Gap".  Seems that gap has closed.

[Cars] Whatever Happened to Ten Years Ago

Sometimes I have good timing -- I bought my house at the absolute bottom of the market in 2010. Sometimes I don't -- I bought southern headquarters near the top.  Regarding cars, it looks like my timing is bad again.  The good ol' Acura (2014 TL) is still driving strong, but I have reached the 9 years / 170k mile point whence I traditionally buy a new car.  Sadly the auto market right now is in complete chaos.  

Firstly, prices are outrageous. To give you some idea, my car was a year old with 15k miles when I bought it.  I don't remember the exact figure, but it ended up around $25k.  The equivalent car now would be a 2022 Acura TLX.  That car would run me about $35k.  Now truly I can't complain too much about that because it approximately corresponds to the overall rate of inflation but, damn.  That's a big chunk of change. I think I'm outraged because between the time I sold my last Camry and bought the TL inflation was about zero I was able to move into the near-luxury market for a tiny premium.


Laugh if you must but, for reasons I won't go into, my ideal car at the moment is a 2023 Toyota Sienna hybrid.  I could get a used one for just shy of 50k.  Assuming I get 10k for my trade in, that's 40 Large out of pocket.  For a minivan.  Never have I ever pictured that happening. 


All this started with Covid and famed supply chain issues.  Autos only just started to recover, and then only some makers. The U.S. big three are in good shape inventory-wise, Germans and Koreans are close to recovering, but the big two Japanese are still in short supply -- especially Toyota.  Now there is no telling what is going to be the effect of the UAW strike, but it's hard to see it not constraining supply even more.


Bottom line: I think the ol' Acura may have to last me another year, which is a larger ask than it would have been previously, given that I am pouring miles on it going back and forth to southern headquarters multiple times per year.  Still it's holding up well and generally being a good advertisement for buying another Acura.  Too bad they don't make a minivan.


BTW, one of the best sources for info about the back and forth of the auto retail trade is Car Dealership Guy.  Interesting podcast, email sub, and twitter feed. You can really get the detailed low down of what's going on in the industry.  A fascinating behind the scenes.  One point he makes, auto loans are in meltdown.  Non-performing loans are at record levels and numerous leaders have left the market.  You would think that the inability to get a loan would lower demand and prices would react, and while that may be happening, it's happening very slowly as people seem to be resigned to accepting older cars for price reasons and because pretty much all cars are a good deal more durable than they used to be.  If you have even a passing interest in market economics, it's a very cool follow.